How did we end up in the bedroom?

It may seem like a long road from holding hands to having sex, but one night you might find yourself barreling down that road at about a hundred miles an hour, in the dark, and you can't find the brake, and there are no cops around to help you, and you're about to go right over the cliff, and . . .

Well, okay, you get the idea. In the heat of the moment, it's a lot more difficult to stop if you haven't set up some boundaries and communicated them clearly. People who are successful at abstinence have thought ahead and set "Unshakeable Unbreakable" boundaries, deciding where to draw the line before any type of sexual activity takes place. If you haven't set limits, it's easier to drift into doing things that you're not ready for or don't even want.

Don't take a ride that you're not ready for. Set up your roadblocks!